Welcome 😊 to our grammar lesson on Spanish reflexive verbs (“verbos reflexivos”).
Most reflexive verbs are those where the subject and object are the same. In other words, the subject does something “to himself”.
By the end of this lesson, you will be able to use reflexive verbs properly in sentences.
You will also find a Quiz and Exercises to practice.
Reflexive verbs are easy to recognize: we see the particle se attached at the end of their infinitive form.
The following table shows 3 reflexive verbs, and also 3 verbs that are not reflexive. Notice the particle se at the end of reflexive verbs :
Reflexive verbs | Non-reflexive verbs |
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duchar se | hablar |
levantar se | comer |
concentrar se | trabajar |
Here is a list of common reflexive verbs:
Verb | Meaning |
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acercar se | to get closer |
acordar se | to remember |
acostar se | to go to bed |
alejar se | to move away |
afeitar se | to shave |
atrever se | to dare |
bañar se | to bathe |
casar se | to get married |
concentrar se | to concentrate |
desvestir se | to get undressed |
despertar se | to wake up |
dormir se | to fall asleep |
duchar se | to shower |
enamorar se | to fall in love |
enfadar se | to get angry |
enterar se | to find out |
expresar se | to express oneself |
imaginar se | to imagine, to figure |
ir se | to leave a place |
lavar se | to wash oneself |
levantar se | to get up |
llamar se | to be called |
poner se | to put clothes on / to become |
preocupar se | to worry |
preguntar se | to wonder |
quedar se | to stay |
quejar se | to complain |
quitar se | to take clothes off |
reunir se | to get together |
sentar se | to sit down |
sentir se | to feel some way |
volver se | to become |
vestir se | to get dressed |
Notice that many actions of our daily routine are expressed with reflexive verbs (“to get up”, “to shower”…).
In order to conjugate reflexive verbs, we need to learn a set of reflexive pronouns , one for each person:
Person | Reflexive pronoun |
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yo | me |
tú | te |
él, ella, usted | se |
nosotros | nos |
vosotros | os |
ellos, ellas, ustedes | se |
Where do we place these reflexive pronouns? In most tenses, right before the verb.
For example, this is the conjugation of duchar se in Present Tense :
Notice that what we conjugate is duchar , which is the verb itself. The attached particle se simply indicates that the verb is reflexive, so we need to also place our reflexive pronouns.
And here is the conjugation of duchar se in Preterite Tense :
As we just explained, in most tenses, we place the reflexive pronoun right before the verb. Examples:
Present Tense
Yo siempre me ducho por la mañana.
I always shower in the morning.¿Cuántas veces te lavas los dientes?
How many times do you brush your teeth?Ella se acuesta temprano.
She goes to bed early.Ellos se quedan en casa hoy.
They stay home today.
Present Perfect
Marta se ha casado .
Marta has gotten married.Nosotros nos hemos levantado temprano.
We have gotten up early .
Preterite Tense
Yo me fui de la fiesta.
I left the party .Los estudiantes se concentraron .
The students concentrated.
Future Tense
¿ Te acordarás ?
W ill you remember?Os enteraréis de algo increíble.
You guys will find out something incredible.
Negative Commands
No te quejes .
Don’t complain .No os preocupéis .
Don’t you guys worry .
There are 3 cases where we attach reflexive pronouns at the end of the verb :
Infinitive form:
No puedo concentrar me .
I can’t concentrate .Relajar se aquí es imposible.
Relaxing here is impossible .Quiero acostar me .
I want to go to bed .Mis padres van a quejar se .
My parents are going to complain .
Gerundio form:
Mis padres están vistiéndo se .
My parents are getting dressed .Estamos lavándo nos las manos.
We are washing our hands.
Affirmative Commands
¡ Dúcha te !
Take a shower!¡ Levanta os !
Get up! (you guys)Pon te la ropa.
Put your clothes on.Senta os .
Sit down. (you guys)
When we have 2 verbs combined
In the case where we have 2 verbs combined in the following way …
… then we have the freedom to place the reflexive pronoun either before the first verb, or attached at the end of the reflexive verb.
Me quiero duchar .
Quiero duchar me .
Both sentences mean “I want to take a shower”.Te estás lavando los dientes.
Estás lavándo te los dientes.
Both sentences mean “You are brushing your teeth”.
Take this short Quiz about reflexive verbs:
Start Quiz You got <> out of >Which of the following verbs are reflexive?
Solution: Only “relajarse” and “moverse” are reflexive, because “se” is attached at the end.
Conjugate the following reflexive verbs in Present Tense for the given person. Click on the gray spaces to see the solutions:
1) yo me relajo (relajarse)
2) tú te mueves (moverse)
3) él se sienta (sentarse)
4) nosotros nos vestimos (vestirse)
5) vosotros os concentráis (concentrarse)
6) ellos se peinan (peinarse)
In this exercise we practice sentences where the reflexive pronoun goes before the verb.
Fill the gaps conjugating the verbs in brackets in Present Tense:
1) Mis amigos siempre se lavan los dientes después de comer. (lavarse)
My friends always brush their teeth after eating.
2) Nosotros nos reunimos todos los viernes. (reunirse)
We meet every Friday.
3) A veces, tú te acuestas tarde. (acostarse)
Sometimes you go to bed late.
4) María se siente bien hoy. (sentirse)
Maria is feeling good today.
In this exercise we practice sentences where the reflexive pronoun goes attached at the end of the verb:
1) No puedo dormirme . (dormirse)
I can’t fall asleep.
2) Estamos bañándonos . (bañarse)
We are taking a bath.
3) Vosotros vais a lavaros la cara. (lavarse)
You guys are going to wash your faces.
4) Antonio, ¡ levántate ! (levantarse)
Antonio, get up!
A child talks about his family’s daily routine.
In this exercise we have included sentences where the reflexive pronoun goes before the verb, and others where it goes attached at the end:
1) Todos los días, mis padres se levantan a las seis. (levantarse)
Every day, my parents get up at six o’clock.2) Yo me levanto a las siete. (levantarse)
I get up at seven.
3) Yo me ducho con agua caliente. (ducharse)
I shower with hot water.
4) Mi hermano prefiere ducharse con agua fría. (ducharse)
My brother prefers to shower with cold water.
5) A las ocho, mi hermano y yo nos vamos juntos al colegio. (irse)
At eight o’clock, my brother and I leave for school together.
6) Por la noche, normalmente yo me acuesto temprano. (acostarse)
At night, I usually go to bed early.